Get people to say 'yes'

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THIS WEEK’S BOOK

What it’s about

Influence by Robert B. Cialdini explores the psychology behind persuasion and why people say "yes." Cialdini identifies six principles of influence: reciprocity, commitment and consistency, social proof, authority, liking, and scarcity. He illustrates these principles with real-life examples and research findings, showing how they can be used ethically in various situations, such as sales, marketing, and everyday interactions. The book provides valuable insights into how to recognize and resist manipulation while also harnessing the power of influence to achieve personal and professional goals.

TAKEAWAYS

1. Reciprocity: People feel obligated to repay favors, so offering something of value first can lead to reciprocity.

2. Commitment and Consistency: Once someone commits to a small action, they are more likely to follow through with larger requests to remain consistent.

3. Social Proof: People tend to follow the actions of others, especially in uncertain situations, so demonstrating social proof can influence behavior.

4. Authority: People are more likely to comply with requests from perceived authorities or experts in a particular field.

5. Liking: People are more likely to be influenced by those they like or feel connected to, so building rapport and trust is crucial.

6. Scarcity: People desire things more when they believe they are limited in availability, so highlighting scarcity can increase the perceived value of a product or opportunity.